When the datepicker UI is shown and then destroyed programmatically:
```js
$( "#datepicker" ).datepicker( "destroy" );
```
hide the datepicker UI without the need for an explicit user action.
Previously, in 1.12 the UI would not disappear immediately but only after the
first `mousedown`. In later 1.13 versions, the UI would not disappear at all.
Fixes gh-2178
Closes gh-2268
Add a new option named onUpdateDatepicker that allows a custom callback
to be provided. If provided, the callback is called at the end of
$.datepicker._updateDatepicker.
Instead of using enormous HTML strings, various elements are now constructed
using jQuery APIs. This makes it more obvious user-provided data is used
correctly.
Fixes#15284
Closes gh-1953
jQuery positional selectors () have been deprecated in
[jQuery 3.4.0](https://blog.jquery.com/2019/04/10/jquery-3-4-0-released/)
and they'll be removed in jQuery 4.0.0. This PR removes their usage.
Most of the changes were possible without changing public API. However,
dropping `:even` usage required a change to the
[`header` option](https://api.jqueryui.com/accordion/#option-header)
of the accordion widget. I made it an optional function; this will need
to be documented.
The polyfill for `.even()` & `.odd()` is added for jQuery <3.5.0. There was
no usage of the :odd selector in the code but the `.odd()` method is also
polyfilled for completeness.
Closes gh-1904
